I'm aware that in the history of Prophet Lut's people, the occurances of homosexuality, the people of sodom. Tetapi, Islam tidak memberi kemudharatan kepada orang-orangnya/umatnya.(Islam doesn't make people feel trouble nor sufferable from it). Only people with narrow minded will only think that way. I don't blame the non-muslims for assuming people of Islam easily. But careful on what you assume. It might trigger the land mine.

You know, most rules are always made by people. Or I just might as well say, rules are made by mankind. You might be questioning, who made our individuals religion rules and regulations. Next question is, how high is your religious tolerance?

Let me quote a passage or two from this Site,
"Muslim believe that every human action leads to consequences. Good actions entail good results, and evil actions entail evil consequences. Some of these consequences may not become known for many years after a certain action. The consequences of some actions will become manifest only after death when one enters a new, everlasting life... A common mistake among humans is that if they don't see any negative consequences for their actions they consider it harmless."

I agree to a certain extend. If a person who is purely evil, has all the evil things, from intentions, to actions & emotions are all coated with evil things. I believe there isn't such thing in this world with such black heart and stoned brain. Is there a baby born with evil intentions or purely hatred heart? If there is, I would be happy to see one. That's why I use the word, "coated". People are not born as a psychopath. People are made to become a psychopath. Through influences and all sorts. They can be poisoned by the media mostly. Media is not only the television only, magazines, newspapers or even internet can be one of those causes of backstabbing and negative influences.

But parents do play a part. Perhaps, maybe parents want a boy. But turns out to be a girl. So the girl become boyish because of parents' treatment. It's so NOT helping! A girl remains to be a girl! A boy is a BOY! A confusion state of a child can still be straightened up by their parents. Provided, they noticed it earlier. Parents are the guide to their future. Children are the ones creating the future.

Like malay always said,"Seperti lalang ditiup angin. Kalau ikut dengan yang buruk, buruk lah jadinya. Kalau ikut dengan yang baik, baik lah jadinya." But I kind of disagree with this phrase too. It is because it doesn't apply to certain people who really group what's good and what's bad that might influenced them. Perhaps, that phrase applied to young adults. But what I'm trying to say previously(referring to 5th paragraph) is, not the action to be considered on whether it is evil consequences. It is the intention or in malay, it is called 'niat' of doing something evil, will lead to evil consequences. So in total would be adding up to Evil intentions + Evil actions = Nasty consequences

Currently, the hot topic from everywhere.Homosexuality

HomoSexuality Marriage. and all the contents in it. But we are both as such to gain knowledge and that is why we are always each other to gain more knowledge and then apply it and experience the outcome. We are born to do so. We learn the verses of the Holy Book of Quran. Some people derived a different meaning from different phrases of the Quran. From here also, we could obtain rules to abide with, which leads us to a bright path to heaven. His Excellency, had brought down a lot of history to take note of, as a reminder to not let the history repeat itself and also not ever go through that path of evil thoughts and intentions.

Actually, homosexuality is actually a psychological mindset during their puberty stage which during that period of time, their hormones are raging and made the mentality unstable state. That is the period where these bunch of people, whom we called, 'teenagers', are searching for their identity. At this stage, the environment is critical. The environment means the friends, the bond with people. As quoted, "Suggestions, ideas & strange dreams are symptoms of confused attempts to understand new and blunt sexual desires and are rashly interpreted as defining someone as being one sexuality or another. " from, What is Islam's view of homosexuality?, is also one thing to happen in that phase of life of a person.

I, myself has been to that stage. Where there is a part of me telling I'm born to have more masculine than feminine. But environment changes that part of me again. To born as a female, I have to respect that and accept. Now, the masculine part is protecting myself from getting hurt and the feminine side is another side of me which I usually don't show. It is unnoticed by me. But I feel that I still portray. However, I'm still a female which needs what a female needs.

Homosexuality in Islam is totally a straight NO. Even it is a straight 'NO', to prevent facing discrimination, shouldn't we re-educate them, or go through counselling, instead of killing and whipping them to death? I believe, every mankind in this world will have the mindset that, Islam = difficult situations = disapproved activities = terriorists = only halal food and beverages are to be consumed = only halal restaurants we could enter = cannot touch dogs & pigs. But everything has an alternatives and solutions to handle it in the Islamic ways.

But for what to make a movie out of it? It's damn ridiculous. I mean its like as if the movie is good for other religion to watch. What I'm ashamed of is the producer is a muslim himself. Parvez Sharma an indian muslim and he is considered as a gay. Ya ALLAH! Orang yang terpesong telah membuat cerita yang memesongkan agama. Apakah ini sangat dicemuh oleh khalayak ramai?! He is a winner of the prestigious GLAAD media award for Outstanding Documentary in 2009? JIHAD FOR LOVE? Why do you need jihad for love? As a muslim, it is just only a brotherhood or sisterhood is allow to practice among us. What is he doing now, is that he is destroying the image of ISLAM. Of course, as I've said earlier about rules and regulation, Islam has it's rules to abide. Our guide is from the Al-Quran, Sunnah and Hadith.

But I'll pray for all of my friends & relatives to take the path of light not to the path of darkness. Ameen. I will always love, and open to who you are. Even though, it is not in my book of my own rules and principles of life.



Lots of love,
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